https://clinical-pastoral-education-archive.blogspot.com/2026/05/10-more-jk-randoms.html
originally, this blog was going to be "frozen" in time with just the last two weeks on display in pictures & words, but I've decided to extend it...to keep it "current"..with any new news & information related to the original Crystal Cathedral & the Schullers, et al. IT is not for current news re the new owners, The Christ Cathedral (Catholic).
Sunday, May 3, 2026
5 Keys for Consistent Caring & Kindness : universal capacity & hunger , building hope, care to the Lord, infectiousness of kindness
The provided text, titled "The Essential Keys for Consistent Caring," outlines a framework for Christian ministry and everyday interaction centered on the power of simple kindness and the belief that God is the ultimate restorer of the "smashed" or broken.
The Five Keys of Caring
1. Universal Capacity to Help
No one is disqualified from encouraging others due to age, status, or ability. The author shares a story from his time in a psychiatric hospital, where a man with significant mental challenges blessed the author weekly with a simple smile and gesture, proving that everyone has the capacity to lift another's spirits.
2. Universal Hunger for Support
Every human being—from famous performers like Luciano Pavarotti to everyday workers like cashiers or mechanics—has a "hunger" for appreciation and words of kindness. Affirmation is a universal need, and even small gestures can significantly impact a person's well-being and performance.
3. Building Hope through Kindness
Simple acts of care (a smile, a visit, a thank you) serve as "nourishment" for the human spirit. In a world that can feel oppressive, these actions reinforce "Christian Hope," which the author describes as a "taste of God" that helps people believe in a good God who never forsakes them.
4. Caring for Others is Caring for the Lord
Based on the teachings of Jesus, the author emphasizes that the human race is incredibly valued by God. Therefore, showing kindness to any person—especially "the least of these"—is equivalent to showing kindness to Christ Himself. Followers are encouraged to see all people as "treasures to be valued."
5. The Infectiousness of Kindness
Good deeds and kindness act as "contagions" that spread from person to person. Examples provided include:
A man planting flowers in a slum, which inspired an entire neighborhood to clean up.
Drivers letting others into traffic lanes.
The profound impact of a simple smile, which can "heal discouragement" and pass from one person to another like a positive epidemic.
Core Philosophy
The overarching message is that while humans are called to "walk with" those who are hurting, they can do so with a "sigh of release," trusting that God is the one who ultimately restores and puts people back together. By incorporating these keys, individuals serve as the "light of the world," helping to bring "heaven to earth" through simple, intentional acts of love.
2009 Kindness Conference
Event Overview
Name: Care & Kindness Conference 2009 (also referred to as the International Conference on Care & Kindness).
Location: Crystal Cathedral in Garden Grove, California.
Dates: March 12, 13, and 14, 2009.
Theme: "90% of helping is just showing up!"
Vision and Purpose
The conference aims to inspire people to reach out with care and kindness to colleagues, friends, and strangers, moving beyond what is typical for Christians today. The vision is rooted in the belief that "the spirit of God seen in Jesus Christ" serves as the ultimate model for care, encouraging participants to leave their comfort zones to serve others.
Key Speakers and Topics
The event features a diverse group of professionals and ministers, including:
Dr. James R. Kok: Conference leader and author of 90% of Helping is Just Showing Up!
Dr. Robert Emmons: Professor at UC Davis speaking on "The Power of Gratitude to Heal, to Energize, and to Change Lives."
Rev. Dick Innes: Founder of ACTS International, conducting workshops on "Loving and Understanding People."
Dr. Brian Acacio: Board-certified reproductive endocrinologist discussing the "Emotional and Physical Trials of Infertility."
Annette Craig: Founder of the With Hope foundation, presenting "Suicide... the Silent Killer," focused on teen suicide prevention.
Rebecca Caldwell: A leader at the Disneyland Resort sharing how a "Fortune 500 Company Responds to the 5 Keys of Care & Kindness."
Beth Jahncke: A certified practitioner teaching "Healing Touch of Grace" (Laying-on of Hands).
Dr. Eric Evenhuis: Licensed counselor presenting "A Time to Say Yes; A Time to Say No."
Schedule Highlights
Thursday, March 12: Registration, opening sessions, and workshops on compassionate listening and post-traumatic stress.
Friday, March 13: Devotional time (Lectio Divina), sessions on depression and grief, and a "Care & Kindness Banquet."
Saturday, March 14: A communion service followed by sessions on infertility, youth culture, and hope-building.
Communication and Relationships
Rhea Zakich: An author and creator of the Ungame, a popular communication game designed to foster safe environments for sharing feelings and experiences.
Dr. David Kinnaman: President of The Barna Group, who discusses connecting with younger generations (ages 16–29) through non-judgmental listening and sincere acts of kindness.
Dr. Jan Pfeffer: A psychologist focusing on the healing power of "presence" and the "communication circle," exploring how spirituality and touch influence recovery.
Grief and Trauma Support
Sharon Marshall Lockett: An educator and author who specializes in guiding children through grief, emphasizing the responsibility of caretakers to ensure children are not excluded from the healing process.
Dr. Henry Peterson: A chaplain and veteran who addresses Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), its causes, treatments, and the role of the church in supporting those who suffer from it.
Dr. James Kok: Director of Care Ministry, he focuses on everyday behaviors for hope-building and specifically addresses how to talk to the bereaved about their loss.
Faith, Healing, and Community
Rev. Dr. Vicki Orr: A pastor and teacher who guides individuals on a spiritual journey from being forgiven to actively forgiving and blessing others.
Dr. William LaFleur: A professor of Japanese Studies who explores the relationship between Christianity and Buddhism, focusing on showing "loving kindness" to Buddhist neighbors.
Rev. Robert V. Schuller: A pastor focused on building a "loving church" and managing emergent ministries to reach those "shattered by life".
Chaplain Dona Williams: A hospital chaplain who teaches compassionate listening for the sick and injured, specifically helping patients move past guilt and suffering through the "Light of Christ".
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